Dansideas's Blog

August 4, 2009

The fair sex?

Women are the fair sex? Women are the weaker sex? Women are the dumber sex? Just where did these ideas ever come from? Once upon a time, before men figured out that they were the reason women had children, women were the most important members of primitive tribes. Once the men got the idea that it was themselves alone who could father a child and know it was their own child, the importance of the woman fell. In order to make sure the child born was yours, one had to keep his female from being able to mate with any other male. Thus the idea of ownership of women by males. Seeing how any male could bring forth a child with any female, it made the male the now important one. One could only carry on the lineage through the male seed. The female now became the second sex, the one who really didn’t matter, for the male could continue his line with any female.

Today we know that more male children are born than females, but females survive better. For centuries males died earlier than females, of course now that may not be quite so true. The stress of life is much more equal now. Men are usually  much stronger than women when it come s to physical strength, so the label of the weaker sex comes into being. But it is known that women have a higher pain tolerance than men, as it is said, if men had to bare the children, the human race would die out. Men withstand pain by being macho about it. Women do it naturally.

Dumb women, just can’t understand the world, let us men who do run it. Right! Just another way men have tried to keep the female as the second sex in this world. Even in religion, women are considered less than men. Why? It gives validity to what men do. God made man first, so man is the most important. If god made man in his image, then god must be a male.  But why does a god who is the only god have to have a sexual identity? What point is having a male god if there is no female for him? If a god impregnates one of his children, is he a sexual deviant?  Any way, keeping women ignorant helps keep them in their place.

But why did  man have to make women second class people? Because deep down man knows he is just a weird copy of the female. The nipples thing, men have them but don’t need them, so why are they there? Always thought the creation story would have made more sense if Adam was made from Eve’s rib, that would at least account for the nipple thing in some way. Men know that females drive them crazy, they have to have one or more than one. It is women who give men their driving force to do things in the world.Women want the best provider to keep themselves and their children alive and well, so the man must do that if he wants a woman at his side. I think men are ashamed of their need for women and take it out on them for making them do things. I some times think that rape is just an extension of that feeling, the need to prove that the male is more important, the dominant one of the species. It is part of the need to keep the female in her place.

When it comes to listening to the way men talk and the way women talk, it is the female is who much more open, more vicious in comments about other people, more open about sexual feelings. Hell, in every way women are just more than men. Women communicate better than men, part of the reason they tend to be the child rears in most all of the animal kingdom, plus they are the ones who nurture the children. Any male can father a child, but only a mother can really raise one.

Well enough of my ramblings. The end idea is that I think man is the weaker and the second sex of the world, not woman. I have to wonder why it took so long for women to get the vote in this country, wonder why it is alright for men to have as much sex as they can get and women are labeled bad for the same feelings, the double standard. Why the country had to vote for women getting as much pay as men for the same job? How long is it going to take for humankind to grow up and see the world as it really is? A very long time I am afraid, as long as we have religions that keep women in a second class position. It is hard to argue with what people see as a gods plan, for who wants to argue with their god? After all the Bible says god said to Eve, “he shall rule over you” and god blamed Eve for mans exit from Eden, so do men still believe it. Even with the first so called people, it was woman who made man do things. Without the female, men have no reason to be. True it is the same for women, for without men they have no reason to be.

A strange after thought. There is a species of fish, that when dominant male dies, the dominant female turns into a male to take it place. Female into male, just the way I think it happened way back in the dawn of life on this world.

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July 25, 2009

Men and Women

Filed under: A Tought — Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , — dansideas @ 10:20 pm

Ever wonder why men have nipples? What use are they? Got to think that once upon a time there was just one sex and that sex was female. During the evolution of mammals, I guess it needed another sex to make it a viable life form. So if you start with the female and change it ever so slightly you get the male. Seems likely to me that it happened this way. No I have done no research on this, it is just a thought I had on why men have nipples.

Body hair, oh boy that is a fun thing, not! At least from where I am at. Why do I need to be growing hair on my ears? Why do I need to be growing what could become a second mustache out of my nose?  Hair growing on my nose, come on. My facial hair seems to be growing together all over my face, at this rate by the time reach 90 (if I do) I will lose my face behind the hair. And why do older women need to start growing mustaches and beards? Sorry thing for the fair sex to have to put up with. This is part of a gods plan for human kind? Mean joke if you ask me.  Why cause men to start turning into women and women into men?

Well I guess if all started out as one sex, it makes sense that if we live long enough, we sort of go back to being that one sex at death. If a god made a man first, what was the point of the nipple on him first? Just what was he going to do with them? Sorry keep slipping back into god and gods all of the time, but it does permeate all parts of our life and keeps getting in the way learning what life is all about. Got wonder just how much about the world we might know by now if religion hadn’t kept us in the dark for so long. If it still wasn’t trying to keep us in the dark now.

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