Dansideas's Blog

August 4, 2009

The fair sex?

Women are the fair sex? Women are the weaker sex? Women are the dumber sex? Just where did these ideas ever come from? Once upon a time, before men figured out that they were the reason women had children, women were the most important members of primitive tribes. Once the men got the idea that it was themselves alone who could father a child and know it was their own child, the importance of the woman fell. In order to make sure the child born was yours, one had to keep his female from being able to mate with any other male. Thus the idea of ownership of women by males. Seeing how any male could bring forth a child with any female, it made the male the now important one. One could only carry on the lineage through the male seed. The female now became the second sex, the one who really didn’t matter, for the male could continue his line with any female.

Today we know that more male children are born than females, but females survive better. For centuries males died earlier than females, of course now that may not be quite so true. The stress of life is much more equal now. Men are usually  much stronger than women when it come s to physical strength, so the label of the weaker sex comes into being. But it is known that women have a higher pain tolerance than men, as it is said, if men had to bare the children, the human race would die out. Men withstand pain by being macho about it. Women do it naturally.

Dumb women, just can’t understand the world, let us men who do run it. Right! Just another way men have tried to keep the female as the second sex in this world. Even in religion, women are considered less than men. Why? It gives validity to what men do. God made man first, so man is the most important. If god made man in his image, then god must be a male.  But why does a god who is the only god have to have a sexual identity? What point is having a male god if there is no female for him? If a god impregnates one of his children, is he a sexual deviant?  Any way, keeping women ignorant helps keep them in their place.

But why did  man have to make women second class people? Because deep down man knows he is just a weird copy of the female. The nipples thing, men have them but don’t need them, so why are they there? Always thought the creation story would have made more sense if Adam was made from Eve’s rib, that would at least account for the nipple thing in some way. Men know that females drive them crazy, they have to have one or more than one. It is women who give men their driving force to do things in the world.Women want the best provider to keep themselves and their children alive and well, so the man must do that if he wants a woman at his side. I think men are ashamed of their need for women and take it out on them for making them do things. I some times think that rape is just an extension of that feeling, the need to prove that the male is more important, the dominant one of the species. It is part of the need to keep the female in her place.

When it comes to listening to the way men talk and the way women talk, it is the female is who much more open, more vicious in comments about other people, more open about sexual feelings. Hell, in every way women are just more than men. Women communicate better than men, part of the reason they tend to be the child rears in most all of the animal kingdom, plus they are the ones who nurture the children. Any male can father a child, but only a mother can really raise one.

Well enough of my ramblings. The end idea is that I think man is the weaker and the second sex of the world, not woman. I have to wonder why it took so long for women to get the vote in this country, wonder why it is alright for men to have as much sex as they can get and women are labeled bad for the same feelings, the double standard. Why the country had to vote for women getting as much pay as men for the same job? How long is it going to take for humankind to grow up and see the world as it really is? A very long time I am afraid, as long as we have religions that keep women in a second class position. It is hard to argue with what people see as a gods plan, for who wants to argue with their god? After all the Bible says god said to Eve, “he shall rule over you” and god blamed Eve for mans exit from Eden, so do men still believe it. Even with the first so called people, it was woman who made man do things. Without the female, men have no reason to be. True it is the same for women, for without men they have no reason to be.

A strange after thought. There is a species of fish, that when dominant male dies, the dominant female turns into a male to take it place. Female into male, just the way I think it happened way back in the dawn of life on this world.

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July 27, 2009

A gods joke?

Filed under: A Tought — Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , — dansideas @ 12:01 am

Well today I wonder about the difference between men and women and their sexual peaks. If a male is over at 18 or so as they say and woman doesn’t hit hers until after 30, then in this christian world the sexes are screwed. We can’t be having older women doing the young men, nor is it allowed for older men to be with young women, this is our code from the christian world. So god must have be having a real laugh at the frustration of humans trying to enjoy themselves. Now if we went by the nature of life the way it seems it was meant to be, we would have the older experienced women teaching the young men how to be good lovers, and when they pass their peak they would know how to teach the young women to be good lovers so when they get older the cycle continues. Sounds like a win, win situation for both men and women.

Now I am not saying we should be doing this, I am just wondering why it works the way it does. After all once upon a time most men died very young and the women out lived them. Maybe nature made the sex drives to match that. If all things in nature have a reason, there has to be one for the different sexual peaks in humans. If a god made us to be like this, then why are going against the nature god gave us? So many questions about the way we live our lives and the way nature made us to be.

Here is a thought for you all. Mankind  is a part of the animal kingdom, males in the animal kingdom live for almost just one purpose, to have sex with females and continue the species. That is the real job of males in this world. So is it any wonder that human males are always trying to mate with every female they can? They are just following the plan nature made for them. Females in the animal kingdom quite often mate with different males just to insure that when a new male leader comes along he wont kill her young, because he wont know if the young are his or not. Smart thing for females if you ask me. After all for the most part, it is the female who raises the young of their kind.

Back to men going after all the females he can. This is such a simple answer as to why men act as they do. It would be nice if women understood this and not always asking why do they do it. Not saying this the way it ought to be, just giving one reason why it is so. The need to procreate is what drives the world we live in, from the single celled creatures all the way up the food chain to us as humans. And seeing how god or nature made human females always ready to have children and not be seasonal like lots of other animals, the male is always ready to do his best for mankind and try to continue the species. Besides the more children he spreads around, the better the chance that humans will survive. Nature again making that rule or god did, at least in the rest of the animal kingdom it is the rule.

Another thought along this line, I once read where someone once decided that the reason women have boobs and asses that  stick out is so men could see them from a distance and know what they were. After all men are visual creatures, they tend to want what they see and the women were made to get their attention. Of course if the female came first, (the nipple thing from my other post), then men were made so they would attracted to the way the female was built. That idea I read about put forth the idea that females with big boobs and asses got more males than ones without them,and so these are the genes that got passed on that made it. Sounds good to me, True? I do not know. But it does make sense. Remember folks, truth is stranger than fiction.

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